PREPARE FOR YOUR READING
Frequently Asked Questions
Get all the information you need to prepare for your mediumship reading and make the most of your experience.
What is a mediumship reading?
A mediumship reading is a spiritual experience where I connect with your loved ones in spirit to share their messages of love, support, and evidence of their presence. My goal is to provide comfort and healing by bringing through specific details that validate your loved ones’ identities and reassure you that their love continues. Mediumship is the sacred art of connecting with loved ones in spirit and receiving messages of love, healing, and guidance. As a spiritual medium, I act as a bridge between the physical and spiritual worlds, bringing through evidence and heartfelt messages that offer comfort and validation. Each reading is a unique and profound experience, designed to uplift your spirit and help you find peace and clarity.
How should I prepare for my reading?
Preparation is key to getting the most from your session. Here are some steps to consider:
Raise Your Vibration: Focus on loving thoughts, joy, happiness, positive emotions, even the best party you may ever have been at. The higher your vibration the stronger the connection.
Set Your Intentions: Reflect on what you hope to gain from the session, whether it’s connecting with a specific loved one, receiving guidance, or finding peace.
Find a Quiet Space: Choose a private, comfortable place where you won’t be disturbed. It’s important to feel relaxed and present.
Keep an Open Mind: Spirit may bring forward unexpected messages or connections. Trust that you will hear what you need most.
Limit Alcohol & Caffeine: To maintain a clear energy connection, it’s best to avoid alcohol and limit caffeine intake on the day of your reading.
What if my loved one doesn’t come through?
Spirit sets the agenda, so they control the session and who comes through. While I can’t guarantee that a specific loved one will come through, spirit often has a way of bringing forward the souls and messages that are most needed. Trust that you will hear what is most important for your healing and growth. I always remind people to follow the advice of the Rolling Stones: "You can't always get what you want, but you'll get what you need."
Will you share evidence that my loved one is communicating?
Yes, I always aim to bring through specific and meaningful evidence—such as personality, character traits, unique items special to the communicator or shared memories—to validate that your loved one is present. Spirit wants to bring evidence to you so that you'll know they are with you. They may use some pretty unusual things, so keep your mind clear. This helps confirm the authenticity of the connection and provides reassurance. I'll never ask you questions about the communicator. I'll only ask for confirmation of the evidence received. Your active responses are important to maintain a high degree of energy.
What if I don’t recognize or understand something right away?
It’s not uncommon for certain pieces of information to make sense later on, after you’ve had time to reflect or speak with family members. Spirit often shares details that become clearer with time, so try to stay open and revisit the messages later. "After the fact validation" can be some of the most powerful evidence as it comes from a unique spirit-only resource. This is one of the reason that I record your session, so that you can review it later for pieces that weren't initially clear.
What should I do if I’m feeling nervous?
Feeling nervous is completely normal, especially if it’s your first reading. Take a few deep breaths, and remind yourself that this is a loving and supportive experience. Spirit comes from a place of love, and the intention is always to bring healing and comfort.
Can I ask questions during my reading?
Absolutely! I just ask that you wait for the end of the reading so we can let spirit give their evidence and messages. While spirit will often lead the session, you’re welcome to ask questions if there’s something specific you’d like to know or someone you’d like to hear from. Just keep in mind that spirit may or may not address every question in the way you expect.
Can I bring someone with me to an in-persreading?
For private readings, I recommend attending alone or with only one other person to ensure the clearest connection. However, if you’d like to share the experience with several others, consider booking a small group session instead.
How do small group readings work?
In a small group reading, I connect with spirit for everyone present. Each participant will have the opportunity to receive personal messages, though this may not always occur. The group setting often creates a shared sense of healing and connection. It’s a wonderful way to experience the power of spirit alongside others.
How do spirit guide readings differ from mediumship readings?
In a spirit guide reading, I connect with my spirit guides who bring through guidance, insight, and support for your life journey. These sessions focus on your spiritual growth and the wisdom the guides have to share, rather than connecting with loved ones who have crossed over.
Can I record my session?
While you’re welcome to record your session, I record it anyway and send you a copy. Many clients find it helpful to revisit the messages and insights later, as some details may resonate more deeply over time.
What if I feel emotional during my reading?
It’s natural to feel a range of emotions during a reading, from joy to grief to relief. Spirit often touches our hearts in profound ways, so don’t be surprised if tears come. Allow yourself to feel whatever comes up, knowing it’s all part of the healing process.
How often should I have a mediumship reading?
The frequency of readings is a personal choice. I usually recommend no more than three times per year. Some people find that one session brings the peace and closure they need, while others may wish to connect more frequently. Listen to your intuition and schedule readings as you feel called.
What should I know about online (Zoom) readings?
Online readings are just as powerful as in-person sessions. Make sure you have a stable internet connection, and set up in a quiet, well-lit space where you feel comfortable. The energy and connection work just as effectively through video.
Do you guarantee that spirit will communicate?
While I do my best to facilitate a strong connection, spirit communication is not something that can be forced or guaranteed. I always trust that spirit will bring through what you need to hear most, even if it’s not exactly what you expected.
Still have questions or want to learn more?
Feel free to reach out, or schedule a session to experience the healing power of spirit for yourself.
Montclair, NJ 07042
United States