Rediscover the True Spiritual Meaning of Christmas

Since there's only 6 days until Christmas (OMG is that all that's left?!) I thought it would be interesting to dig into what the holiday season really means. I know it’s often about the gifts (and certainly for children about the magic of Santa, etc) and the festive feeling this time of year. I gotta admit I love this time of year because it is really fun. It’s just different and you feel everyone is actually trying to be a little nicer. Maybe there's something to it. 

So what is Christmas all about? Not the frenzied shopping, the traffic jams at every mall, or the neighbor’s epic light display that somehow syncs to Mariah Carey. I mean real Christmas—the one that fills your heart, not your Amazon cart. What does it mean to you? 

For me, it’s evolved into something way beyond the usual hustle. And I’m guessing you might feel the same. So, let’s strip away the wrapping paper and dive into what Christmas is really about. It’s not just a religious holiday or an excuse to eat cookies for breakfast (though that’s DEFINITELY a perk). Christmas is a time to connect—with ourselves, with others, and with something bigger than all of us.

Let’s start with the obvious: Christmas falls during one of the darkest times of the year—literally. Ever noticed how many Christmas traditions involve light? Twinkling string lights, glowing candles, even the star of Bethlehem. It’s not a coincidence. Historically, people have celebrated light in darkness for centuries. 

The winter solstice, for example, marked the return of longer days and brighter skies. Christmas carries that same spirit of renewal and hope. It’s a reminder that even in the darkest times, there’s always light—whether it’s shining from the heavens or glowing in your own heart. And let’s be real, we could all use that kind of reassurance after the rollercoaster of a year we’ve had…and maybe 2025 as well….

Now, let’s talk about love, because Christmas is drenched in it. Not the sappy rom-com kind, but the deep, soulful kind of love that makes you feel connected to everyone and everything. Perhaps that’s part of the reason why it seems more people have a little bit of a smile on their face and you feel a little warmer to each other. Whether you’re religious or not, Christmas has this universal message of unconditional love. Think about it: The whole “peace on Earth, goodwill toward men” thing isn’t just a catchphrase. It’s a call to action. 

It’s about loving your neighbor, even when their inflatable Santa keeps falling into your yard (I hate to admit the number of those I see these days). It’s about giving from the heart, whether that’s a gift, your time, or just a kind word. And let’s not forget, it’s about loving yourself, too. I know that can sound cliché, but how can you pour love into others if your own cup is bone dry?

Here’s where it gets interesting. You don’t have to be in a church pew to feel the spiritual side of Christmas. Sure, for Christians, it’s about celebrating the birth of Jesus and the hope He brings. But even if that’s not your tradition, the season invites you to reflect on something bigger than the day-to-day grind. Call it the divine, the universe, or simply the magic of connection. 

For me, it’s those quiet moments when I’m sitting by the tree with a mug of hot chocolate (oh what a guilty pleasure), feeling gratitude for everything and everyone in my life. It’s in the way my son (now 23) presents a subtle smile when he opens one of his gifts (may take another bunch of years for him to grow out of cro-magnon man). It’s in the way my family comes together—even if we argue over whose turn it is to take out the Christmas trash (son are you listening….) or I have to deal with the in-laws.

But let’s be honest—Christmas can also be overwhelming. The endless to-do lists, the pressure to create the “perfect” holiday, and the financial strain can suck the joy right out of it. That’s why I think it’s so important to pause and ask yourself: What really matters? 

For me, it’s the little things. Like the laughter around the table, the stories we tell every year, and the feeling of being part of something greater than myself. And for you? Maybe it’s reconnecting with a loved one, starting a new tradition, or simply taking a moment to breathe amidst the chaos.

So, here’s my invitation to you this Christmas: Let’s focus on what truly matters. Let’s embrace the light, spread love, and find meaning beyond the material. Whether that means volunteering, sharing a heartfelt meal, or just sitting in stillness with your thoughts, let’s make this season less about “stuff” and more about spirit. 

Christmas isn’t just a date on the calendar. It’s a reminder that love, hope, and light are always within reach, no matter how dark things seem. And hey, if we can sprinkle in a little humor along the way, even better. After all, what’s Christmas without a few laughs?

Happy Holidays to You and Yours,

Chris Lippincott